I’ve been dating a man for 2 months now. He treats me well, makes me laugh, has done nice things for me and has been very respectful, but I am concerned about a few things he has said and done to others.
He is incredibly sarcastic. He has not really said anything too horrible to me, but my experience in life is that when someone seems that angry, sooner or later that anger will be directed at me. I have expressed my concerns to him and he has so far been receptive about what I’ve said. I noticed that he was stingy with his niece who he feels is manipulative. She is one of the sweetest people I know. He didn’t even give her a card at her birthday party. When we talked about his most recent relationship, he expressed that he had been very generous with this woman and she had been a bit selfish. He felt taken advantage by another woman in that relationship.
He has been very respectful of me and has said and done some really nice things.Â Could he be a nice guy who is just a bit gun-shy?